Day 21

The picture attached is from one of my favorite school books, “To Kill A Mockingbird” by Harper Lee. I think this goes along with my post. You have to understand that everyone has a different path and that you are put in situations with others to learn. Life is honestly just a learning experience, you are tested then you learn. You have to understand that you’re on the way to becoming the best version of you. I know I reiterate that a lot, but it’s just because you need to understand that you’re on a journey. Though you don’t know where life will take you, it’s time to be open. You deserve to have happiness come to you. You deserve to have love come to you. You just have to be open!

  

Day 20

I always talk about self-love and how self-love is the best love (because it is!). It is important to remember to be open to love. Love is all around you, but you have to be open to receiving love. Now I am referring to the positive, encouraging love that someone would desire. You have to get to the point though where you understand that love is important, for your overall health. The first step in this of course is self-love but it’s also a level of vulnerability. Remember that even if things don’t work out, there is always a lesson to be learned in every interaction. So take a chance on love. You’ll be surprised what you find!

Be You

I always talk bout how you need to open your eyes and your heart to love. It’s important to be open-minded for your happiness. But you need to close your mind to negative things. Sometimes doors need to be closed so others will open. Not all relationships are meant to be and eventually you have to let go. Close your eyes and release it all. Release the doubt, the negativity, the fear and become close-minded to negative things (and people). Start loving yourself. Take care of your body too, it’s the only body you’ll get. One of my favorite songs right now is Close Your Eyes by Meghan Trainor. I love her, because she talks about loving yourself and being open. Everyone is perfect for themselves, keep that in mind the next time you do something that you’re not fond of or if you look in the mirror and don’t like what you see. Become comfortable in your skin and let go. Allow positive experiences to come to you, trusting that you need to be happy first and foremost. My sister spoke on being happy today and what she said really got me thinking. She, as usual, was filling me in on the drama at school and started talking about being happy. She basically said that if you aren’t happy you need to change something immediately, or else you could look up four years later still unhappy. Personally I know it can be easy to start putting someone you love before yourself. You need to realize that nothing will be successful if you don’t focus on yourself. Don’t blame yourself because it’s a part of learning and you just have to learn from it and move on. Forgive yourself and others, keeping in mind that you’re perfect for you and you are worthy of all your love. Stay happy.