So for those of you that don’t know, Hurt Bae was a short film produced by The Scene. Attached I have the YouTube link, if you haven’t seen it. I just wanted to write a review, as the video relates a lot to the stuff I blog about. Basically it was about  Kourtney and Leonard, a couple, who broke up because of cheating. It was hard for me to watch, because I could see in her eyes how much she loved him, and I could see how much he didn’t care. What really hit me was when he asked her why she forgave him for cheating, she said it was because he’s her best friend. I truly believe love is pure and unconditional, and that’s why she forgave him. And forgiving is important, but she shouldn’t have went back. You have to be selective with who you love. People who respect you and love you back deserve your love. But you also have to love yourself. Define your self-worth. You deserve to be happy and in a healthy loving relationship. Even if at this point in your life you don’t want a relationship, you still deserve to be happy. You deserve to be surround by love. Self-love is a journey, so I can understand why she would go back. I can understand that she wouldn’t want to be alone. But you have to understand that being alone is okay. All too often people have not created the peace within themselves to be alone. Being alone is healthy and you have to get used to it. Even if you’re married, sometimes you’ll be alone cause your spouse won’t be there. Define your self worth and love yourself enough to make sure you can be happy. You deserve peace, love and happiness. I hope, that if Kourtney reads this she’ll understand that when you love someone, you have to still love yourself the most. You have to give up toxic relationships to live a healthy life. I hope you all also understand the importance of putting yourself first. Because at the end of the day, no one has your back like you can. 


Day 28

Treat yourself! Remember that you deserve a little pampering! Whether that means doing a cute hairstyle or painting your nails (which I just did), you deserve it. You deserve to feel comfortable in your own skin, so make sure that you are doing things to get yourself to that point, but also taking care of business. Life is about balance and love- loving yourself and others. Self-love is always the best and most important love though. This has really been the theme for February and my blog in general, because honestly it’s so important. You have to take care of yourself and understand that you deserve it. You deserve whatever you want and I pray you find it! You’re on a journey. You’re human. You’ll make mistakes and you’ll learn. All is well.


A lot of people are confused about what love is. I talk about it with my younger sister, and this is the definition of love I have. Love is unconditionally accepting, respecting and caring about someone. Everyone’s definition of love is different, but just know if it has conditions it’s not true. Love involves forgiveness, without them even having to apologize. My biggest example of who I love is my sister. Because I accept her for who she is (I think she’s great in all actuality), respect her, and care about her. These are things that will stay the same throughout our lives. But back to love. Love is something that is super important for everyone. Everyone craves love. Babies need the most love out of everyone, and this just shows how pure our desires are. The part of your brain that desires, is called your ID. This part develops along with your ego and super ego (your decision making brain parts, not to be confused with the ego). As we age, our IDs become more controlled, so we “need” less love. Really we still always need love. The first person you need love from is yourself. So once you get to the point where you love yourself, life becomes easier. On my phone I have a reminder set for everyday to go off at 12 in the afternoon that reads the following: “I am beautiful ❤️ (then underneath) Just remember you deserve the whole world 🌎”. I got the idea from Dove’s Twitter page, because one of the challenges was to set a reminder to say you’re beautiful everyday. So I decided to try it and I just kept it going. I challenge you all to do the same (it actually feels really nice to have the reminder). The first type of love is self love. Have a great day!