Advice: Relationships

Relationships can be the epitome of complicated. Keep in mind though, they can also be easy. You have to basically let go. Freedom and trust are pivotal. The person you are in a relationship is not under your control, they should respect you enough to know what to do and what not to do. Loyalty is really a big thing. People really have an issue with being loyal and the idea of being one just one person bothers (scares) some people. I don’t necessarily think this is an issue, as long as everyone in the relationship knows what is going on. For a long time, I feel like I was not aware of what was really going on around me. Afterwards, I had this desire to really just know what is going on, but I realized that I need to really just worry about myself. You need to find happiness, love, appreciation and respect within yourself, so that all relationships can be successful. Also just communicate. I keep saying that hoping that someone somewhere is going to read what I’m saying and it click for them. You have┬áto communicate. The only other option is just being alone. Things will get better, as you get stronger. Let your pride go. Pride ruins everything, along with ego. Remaining humble is important, it’s a value that many people have regarded as unimportant, but it fact it allows for better relationships. Watch the way you act towards yourself and others. The golden rule is treat others the way you want to be treated (I could speak on honesty is the best policy but that’s a topic for another day). Okay back to my advice on relationships. I think that anything can be easy, if you are willing to work on it. It can’t just be you though, the other person has to be just as willing. You can’t make a relationship by yourself, trust me I’ve tried it’s unsuccessful. Just give everyone the chance you’d like to have. Everyone has boundaries, so keep that in mind. Communication, along with love, patience and trust (most important happiness) make successful relationships. If it’s meant to be you won’t have to force it, just let it flow. Go with the flow.



For a lot of students, school is stressful. But school can be positive and fun if you just think about it that way. Look at school as an experience to grow, learn and make new friends. You have to allow yourself enough time (time management is the key to being successful) to get all of your work done. Yes that means sometimes I don’t talk on the phone so I can study for my AP Calculus Test. Priorities are everything, and your education should be one. Just manage your time, study hard, and really try to learn. School is better than you think.


Yesterday night I went to homecoming. I just wanted to touch upon some tips for homecoming.

1. Wear shoes that you can walk in. One of my friends said she saw a girl in wedges fall face first on her way into the gym. I wore heels but I brought flats because I knew I’d have to park far.

2. Be comfortable. If you hate dresses don’t wear one. Personally this year I went for something different this year. I love dresses but I wanted to wear pants (my picture is attached)

3. Go with your friends. Or if you have a date make sure you like them. Even though the music wasn’t good, I had fun with my friends.

4. Leave the drama at home. I saw too many couples fighting, and girls were also arguing. Just go to have fun.

5. Plan everything. I picked out my outfit weeks ago, but I forgot about my makeup. I ended up doing my own makeup. Which is fine because I think it turned out nice, but I was a little panicked.

6. Have plans afterwards. That’s my plan for next year.

I hope your homecoming experience is fab!



Apps I love

Messages. Kim Kardashian Hollywood. Notes. WordPress. We Heart It. papayah’ blog. Flipboard. My top social apps. Personally I don’t even really think messages counts as an app, because it’s installed but it’s in my social folder. I love the Kim Kardashian game (I’m finally an A lister). I’m pretty new to the game, and I always forget to finish my photoshoots. I hope that I’ll climb up Kim’s social latter soon. I also have WordPress, it is mostly just to read others blogs and check my stats (I hardly ever do). Notes are where I write a lot, especially when I’m without service (last plane ride I wrote so much). I love weheartit, that’s where I get most of my pictures from for my blogs, as well as my lock screens. It’s one of Tumblr’s sister apps. Flipboard is one of my new favorites, it’s where I get to read a lot and see what’s going on. I was playing on one of my friends phones, and signed up for it. I installed it after I reset my phone. I like that you can have magazines that you create. I have some of photography, world news, hair, etc. I like to stay connected. It’s also linked to my Twitter, which works because I don’t have Twitter on my phone. Last but certainly not least, I have the bookmark for my blog. Just about after every post I check it, to make sure it looks right. I actually like reading my blog occasionally, especially the older ones because I don’t always remember 100% what each blogs says. I recommend you try some of my favorite apps!