embracing loneliness

As people, I feel like we often try to avoid feeling lonely. We fill it with requirements, and other people so we never feel “alone”.  After going through my whole emotional transition within my relationship, and working full time, I never really had time to think and heal. I moved into my new apartment on Tuesday and honestly the idea of being alone is scary. But I want to heal. So I’ve decided to embrace the loneliness. Because in reality loneliness is a perception of what you feel you should feel. I used to be alone and not feel lonely, but now I do. And I’m here to tell you that being lonely is part of healing. I told my sister a few months ago, that I view healing as an individual process, so I wanted to give her the space she needed to heal. Now I just have to give myself that space.

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  1. Mayah, you are not alone. God is with you. Our heavenly Father is with you in everything that you do. This is a time to connect with the Lord and manifest his purpose for you. To be honest, God has a plan for each and every one of us. However, many of us do not ever get the quiet time to pray and to read our Bible. God is real, and prayers work. God can lead you to a great partner, someone who will love you for you. God can lead you to the right job, God can do so much for you. However, God wants one thing in return, he wants your heart. He wants you to love him and glorify his name. God would keep knocking on the doors of your heart until you let him in. God wants to build a relationship with you. You should have faith that God can give you anything that you need. God gave up the life of his son (Jesus) for us. He who gave up the life of his son for us, can do anything for us. Mayah, you can use this time to connect with the Lord, and also to pray about the things that you want, and watch as God will bring great things into your life. A relationship with the Lord begins with faith in the Lord, prayers to God, obedience to the Bible, and a passion for Christ. God is ready, the question is, are you?

    The Bible says in Philippians 4:6
    “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done”.

    The Bible says in Matthew 7: 7-8
    “Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. 8 For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened”.

    God says in Isaiah 41:10
    “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.
    Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God.
    I will strengthen you and help you.
    I will hold you up with my victorious right hand”.

    God says in Jeremiah 29:11
    “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope”.

    If you do not yet have a relationship with the Lord, I would strongly suggest that you begin one. There are a lot of blessings that comes from knowing the Lord, and being in fellowship with him. If you already have a relationship with the Lord, that is good, keep believing and working to deepen your relationship with him, and I am sure that he would come through for you somehow.

    If you want to know about God in more detail, you can find further information here https://christcenteredruminations.wordpress.com/2018/10/23/a-few-things-that-i-have-learned-about-god/ And Here https://christcenteredruminations.wordpress.com/2018/08/29/how-to-build-a-relationship-with-god/

    May God’s blessings be with you, Amen. ❤ ❤


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