One of the most important things in life is to be happy. It’s something that basically you need to do, in order to be healthy (since your health is directly coordinated to your emotional state). So, when you start putting yourself first and doing what makes you happy you are really treating yourself. I treated myself this past Tuesday (the 12th) by going out. I had a really fun time, and I’m glad I went. Over time I’ve realized that I have to do what makes me happy, because that’s all that matters. Others opinions on what I do or what decisions I make in the long run don’t matter. I’m not saying that you should decide to not care about anyone, because it’s important to care about your friends and be a good friend, but you don’t need to “follow” them. You need to be your own person and enjoy your life. At the end of the day it’s about enjoying yourself and doing what you want. Yes there are responsibilities that may not allow you to always do what you want (like basically for the most part ever since I got a job in the beginning of April, my weekends are gone) but you need to make time for what you want. There’s always enough time. Always. And everyone makes time for what and who they want. Remember that you deserve to be happy. Positivity is contagious. The biggest mistake I’ve made in my life is allowing someone to steal my energy and my happiness. The thing is with lessons, is that you get do-overs and you’ll keep getting them until you get it right. At this point you should be worried about being happy and healthy. Stay positive!
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