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It’s always important to test yourself and try new things. Now I don’t mean compromising your morals to try something new, I just mean trying something to have a new experience. Life is nothing but lessons and experiences to help you grow and develop as a person. I’m trying tennis as my something new. I want to do a sport to start exercising more and I think it’ll be healthy and fun for me. It’s good to try new things. You want to love yourself the most. It’s really important. I’m not saying it’s easy to cope with change I’m saying it’s necessary. It’s necessary to move forward and to just accept everything as it is. As far as relationships go just go with the flow. With time everything will be fine and revealed. Everything ends when it’s supposed to, and everything begins when it’s supposed to. It’s not coincidences, or anything of that nature. It’s all going to be okay in the end and if it’s not okay it’s not the end. You need to just keep calm and be at peace with yourself. You have to learn to be comfortable with yourself and stay happy. You must move on from bad situations and releasing the situation and thanking the universe for the experience, while learning from the situation. You have to take everything as a lesson and know that you must love yourself the most. It’s important. You have to open your heart to love. Open your mind to learning. Once you get to that point, you will attract positive people and positive experiences and love to yourself. You deserve to find your ideal person and be happy. By staying with someone who’s not good for you, you are making it harder on yourself in the long run. I’m making it sound easy because it’s just that simple. Yes it hurts a lot at first but I’m a witness that it’s fine. It’s all really going to be okay, because I’m okay. I’m actually better than okay, I’m great. I’m finally happy. It’s great. That whole situation put me out of my comfort zone because he was the first boy I have ever been with, and I learned a lot. Relationships are not accidents, you just have to learn from them. Also learn to live regret-free. Learn to accept what has happened and be at peace with it. Personally what I do is I just reflect on how I felt at the time, so no matter what happens I was doing what I wanted at the time. It’s okay to not want the same thing anymore. I just believe that you have to communicate it. Communication is very important in everything relationship. In order to have the best communication, you have to be vulnerable. You have to be really open and put your pride aside to communicate effectively. You also have to learn to trust others. It’s as easy as you want it to be. I challenge you to communicate more effectively and to try something new. Move out of your comfort zone. Start growing. Change is inevitable.  

   

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