Negativity

I hardly ever talk about negativity on my blog because quite frankly it drains me. But I’ve been meaning to talk about how to deal with negativity in your life, and how to make the best out of every situation possible. There are always going to be people that don’t like you. It can be for various reasons, but it is unimportant. Others opinions of you are not important. People have various reasons and preconceived notions towards everyone they meet. It’s part of life. As long as you are working towards being the best person you can possibly be, then there should be no worries. You have to alter yourself and make yourself a better person. You should be doing something everyday to be a better you. You are not in competition with anyone but yourself, which is the biggest competition their is. Only because you truly know if you’re doing you’re best or not. Try your best at everything you do and see how much better life gets.  But you have to get over the negativity. The easiest thing when trying to remove negativity is just to remove yourself from the situation. I know that this is not always possible, especially in the work place. You can always try avoiding the negativity. You have to guard your positive energy. Staying positive and keeping to yourself is the best defense. People around you will not always be nice, but that does not mean you shouldn’t be. The same thing goes for respect. My motto is I will be respected, therefore I have to respect other people and their opinions. It’s just how the world works. But when something “bad” happens to you, stay positive. Everything in your life is happening for a reason, and you have to take every experience as a lesson. Do not fret when the going gets tough. Remember the beginning is always the hardest.