Independence is really important. I feel like people can “lose” themselves in relationships, which does not have to be the case. You can be in any type of relationship and still stay true to yourself. You have to accept the other person and yourself. There is a balance between losing yourself and being involved in the relationship. You need to be cautious when you care though, allowing yourself to see the truth no matter what the situation. Allow the truth to flow through you freely, so that you will be able to know what is truly going on at all times. You have to stay true to yourself. Keep in mind that space is always good. You need to find yourself and love yourself before you can truly love anyone else. Allow yourself to feel, so you can make decisions based on feelings. Free yourself.